I do want to say goodbye and good riddens to 2010. I have spent the majority of this year trying to wade through our waiting lists here in Ireland. Whether it be for schools, assessment of need with the hospitals, DCA, Carers allowance, or just waiting to see what the hell the next step is for my brilliant little boy. I said goodbye to my job and became a stay at home mam /Carer/Domicile Administrator/ Desperate Housewife whatever you would like to call it. I never imagined this was the end of my career at 24. Maybe it's not, who knows? I hope not. I think I have a lot to give and right now I know my little man needs me more than any employer and that is why, in this job scarce climate I took the leap. I had many doubts when I left. Aside from the significant reduction to our household income, This was the first time I faced Autism head on 24 hours a day. It is a scary place to find yourself for the first time. I think only mothers of autistic children can totally relate, it is not easy to describe the ups and downs you experience.
Christmas Eve we finally received the psychologists assessment report that I have been fighting for. This report allows us to apply to the ASD specific units which is the first step in the right direction (so I've been told). We still have to wait 8-10 months on services. So to date no speech therapy or occupational therapy for Diddles. I am attempting to study it myself and putting it all into practice is difficult but has been successful!
Diddles taught himself to swim. It has been our first year in our house and we do love where we are now.
Which brings me to my new years resolutions........
I usually would say no resolutions but this year I feel the need to make a small few .....
#1 Get diddles therapies & school in place for 2011
#2 Get organised.
#3 Make time for me.
#4 Bring boys swimming more often.
Have you guys any resolutions for 2011?
Happy new year! I hope it is a better year to all of us! xxxxxxxxxxx
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